Multi-cat households can be tricky to manage. For some cat parents, all of their cats get along beautifully well. For other cat parents, their cats may be at constant war with each other, with more than the occasional hissing, growling and flailing of paws.
Cats who don't get along can make for an unpleasant home environment for everybody. If your cats are more enemies than friends, it's important to figure out why and come up with a plan to help them at least call a truce.
There are many possible reasons why your cats are not getting along. Here are a few common reasons:
Improper socialization: Socialization is the process by which a kitten learns how to properly interact with its environment, including people and other animals. Kitten socialization is crucial between about 2 and 7 weeks of age and should continue for the next few months. Not being socialized at all, or being inadequately socialized, means a kitten won't have the skills to properly interact with other cats, setting the stage for unfriendly inter-cat behavior in a multi-cat household.
Lack of resources: Each cat in a home needs its own set of resources (space, food, water). When resources are lacking, cats will fight each other for whatever resources are available.
Aggression: Aggression is a significant source of animosity between cats. Different types of aggression may be happening between your cats:
Medical issues: Cats who are ill or in pain don't make good company. If one of your cats isn't feeling well for whatever reason, they may lash out at your other cats.
Favoritism: Do you pay more attention to one cat than the others? If so, those other cats will pick up on your favoritism and take it out on the 'chosen' cat.
Cats are not always obvious about what's bothering them, so it may not be easy for you to determine precisely why your cats aren't getting along. Consider scheduling an appointment with your veterinarian to discuss the behavioral issues between your cats. By describing your home environment and when you notice your cats not getting along, your veterinarian can help you identify the problem and devise a plan for establishing (or re-establishing) peace between your cats.
The strategies listed below can help your cats be nicer to each other:
If you're not having much luck with these strategies, seek professional behavioral help from a veterinary behaviorist or certified applied animal behaviorist. Bear in mind, though, that some cats may never get along; for other cats, their relationship may be beyond repair. In these situations, it is advisable to either keep the cats permanently separated in the home or rehome one of the cats.
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